I think I should post this

It amazes me how much pain we humans can create for ourselves through judgment and longing. Anytime I find myself using "should" I look at it as a trigger for a question. "Should" is a sign that we need to inquire into the nature of our expectations about things. From there we can create strategy for either changing the world to bring it in line with our vision, or changing ourselves to recognize reality and alleviate our own suffering.